What's Missing? Graveyards are always incomplete records of those who have lived and died. What's missing from this headstone? If you were creating a data matrix for the people buried here, you would have to enter "NA" in two columns for this grave site: Name and Birth Date. Yet, you get the exact day on which s/he died in 1832 at 20 years and 11 months. Bethany United Church of Christ Cemetery.