Defined by Our Hats: The principle is the same. Hats tell us something about the lives we lived. But, that's not the big story here. Look at the faces of these two brothers and the dates they died. Tragedy is the only possibility. Loosing a child must be every parent's worst nightmare, but loosing two at once? Unbearable. Are those headstones shaped like teardrops? Mt. Olive Cemetery.